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[sanci]

Bom pa najbrž ena izmed redkih tle gor, ki bom rekla, da sem zelo pozitiven človek. Seveda imam težave in sem bila že kadj prizadeta, padem kakšen izpit ali pa se skregam s fantom in kaj potem... Dokler imam stvari zdravje, streho nad glavo in 100% vsaj 5 ljudi na tem svetu ki me imajo srcno radi, da ne stejem se to, da imam stvari za oblect, da lhko grem na kavo v kino, plesat itd se nimam kaj sekirat... Uživam v življenju z vsemi padci in vzponi, ker tudi iz tega lahko nekaj pobereš in se nekaj naučiš. Meni je lepo, imam se rada, rada imam tudi vse okoli sebe. Negativcev ali hudobnežev, pa se če se le da izognem na celi črti, kar naj se sami s sabo ukvarjajo....

Življenje je treba zajeti z veliko žlico in iz vsega vzeti najboljše...

[Venesa]

Ja res je treba je gledat najprej na sebe in nato šele na druge. Je pa treba tudi včasih prisluhniti drugim. Ni vedno rečeno, da imamo vse mi prav.

[Jadranka]

Sanci - tako se govori!!!
Lp

[Kim]

[*simoncy*]

Hey Sanci!! Vesela sem, da si tazga mišljenja!
Tut jst sm nekakšen pozitivček, nekakšno veselo bitje, vedno nasmejana.. Pa tut rada imam take ljudi, k znajo mislit pozitivno!

Včasih se zamislim, pa sem vesela že zato, da sem kakršna sem: vesela sem, da se za razliko od mnogih svojih vrstnikov zavedam kakšno srečo imam, da živim takšno življenje, da imam streho nad glavo, da imam ljudi ki me imajo radi, da mislim pošteno, da sem prijazna, da spoštujem ljudi.. Naj se sliši to še tako samohvalno, a jaz se veselim da sem tako zadovoljna s tem kar imam, pa čeprav to ni neko bogastvo..

Moja pozitivna misel je: zakaj bi se sekirala za neprijetne stvari, ki me doletijo-vsakega doleti kdaj kaj nerodnega, slabega-če se sekiraš s tem ničesar ne izboljšaš.. Namesto da bi zapravljala čas z jokanjem, obžalovanjem, ga raje izkoristim za veselje...

UH, razpisala sem se: vendar sem vse povedala iskreno, tako kot jaz doživljam svoj optimizem in sem nanj zelooo ponosna-namreč oogroomno je ljudi, ki imajo več razlogov za veselje kot jaz, a ga zavirajo, namesto da bi opazili te razloge, opažajo razloge za skrb, jezo..

[*simoncy*]

Pa še to: gotovo si tudi fizično bolj zdrav človek, če živiš z optimizmom, kot pa če bi imel same skrbi...

Pa tudi, optimistični ljudje imamo gotovo več prijateljev, kot tisti ki se nad vsako stvarjo le pritožujejo..
Tudi sama se izogibam pesimistom in se ne pustim užalostiti zaradi njihovih mišljenj o sebi: češ, da se vedno samo smejim, da sploh ne znam zajokati.. Znam, se zjokam če je reeeessss krizen dogodek.. Pa tudi znam biti resna, se resno pogovorit s prijatelji, jim svetovat v njihovih težkih situacijah.. Sicer pa sem nasmejana, dobre volje.. ZAKAJ PA NE? 8)

NAJ ŽIVI OPTIMIZEM IN DOBRA VOLJA!

[JAGODA]

jaz sem tudi bolj pozitivna oseba... včasih so trenutki ko ne moremgledat naprej s pozitivne strani ampak jih je zelo zelo malo

[sonchika]

Jaz sem nagnjena k pesimizmu (pač Devica). Vedno se trudim, da najdem izhod, ampak me velikokrat slabe stvari premagajo. Takrat pa je najbolje odpočiti si, se sprostiti in potem pogledati stvari z distance. Pol pa gre. Ampak to je precej težko.

[tinca]

Pa še to: gotovo si tudi fizično bolj zdrav človek, če živiš z optimizmom, kot pa če bi imel same skrbi...

Pa tudi, optimistični ljudje imamo gotovo več prijateljev, kot tisti ki se nad vsako stvarjo le pritožujejo..Tudi sama se izogibam pesimistom in se ne pustim užalostiti zaradi njihovih mišljenj o sebi: češ, da se vedno samo smejim, da sploh ne znam zajokati.. Znam, se zjokam če je reeeessss krizen dogodek.. Pa tudi znam biti resna, se resno pogovorit s prijatelji, jim svetovat v njihovih težkih situacijah.. Sicer pa sem nasmejana, dobre volje.. ZAKAJ PA NE? 8)

NAJ ŽIVI OPTIMIZEM IN DOBRA VOLJA!

Res, zakaj pa ne?!
To si resnično dobro napisala!
Jaz sem srečna. Ker sem ljubljena in ker ljubim. Ker sem zdrava. Ker me obdajajo krasni ljudje. Ker.....skratka srečna sem....
Preveč je lepih stvari. Zakaj bi jih morale pokvariti tiste grde?

lp, tinca

[*simoncy*]

Tinca :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft: :thumleft:

:wav:

[Kim]

punce rožce za vas...kaj pa vem...men se tko vse zdite sončki....vse tiste ki vas redno berem in cenim vaše odgovore...hmnja...prave borke ste



pridne bit

p.s.: jst sm tud sonček

[rea]

Ne žaluj za zlaganimi obrazi ali pa besedami brez pomena, bodi srečna, ker ti ne sledijo več!
Odhajaj vedno, ko začutiš, da želiš ostati.
Ne daj se svojim mislim, ne verjami jim, da ljubiš, pojdi, naj mislijo, da ne maraš... ničesar, nikoli več.

[Anouk]

You gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone oughtta be.

No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.

I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do. - Helen Keller

How wonderful it is that nobony need wait a single minute before starting to improve the world. - Anne Frank

The best thing one can do when it's raining is to let it rain.

Sometimes, good things fall apart so that better things can fall together. - Marilyn Monroe


Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you. - John de Paola

Always make new mistakes. - Esther Dyson

I am too positive to be doubtful, too optimistic to be fearful and too determined to be defeated.

Take pride in how far you have come, and have faith in how far you can go. - Christian Larson

Replace fear of the unknown with curiosity. If you are going to doubt something, doubt your limits.

[Kinky]

Nekaj zanimivih misli:

30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself


KLIK

[Anouk]

Posteno! Hvala, Kinky

[krneki]

“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.” - John Lennon

“
Enjoy life, live it to the fullest. Do not ever think that Life sucks because, trust me, it would really be. Find the beauty of living, be optimistic. There’s a lot of room for opportunities and glee. And if something bad will occur, take it as a one big step to another level of happiness; expect mistakes and accept it positively. Life is colourful; it’s just a matter of control and faith. Like what ‘Anaïs Nin’ had said, ‘We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are.’
Life is a beauty, believe in that.
—Raissa Colon (m.e)
”

[Plain Jane]

Ta tema je Jaz nisem noben sonček. Sem baje največji pesimist kar jih je.

[TASH]

A veš kakšen šok je bil, ko sem vidla da si postala v tej temi.

[Plain Jane]

[Kinky]

20 Things I Should Have Known at 20.
1. The world is trying to keep you stupid. From bank fees to interest rates to miracle diets, people who are not educated are easier to get money from and easier to lead. Educate yourself as much as possible for wealth, independence, and happiness.
2. Do not have faith in institutions to educate you. By the time they build the curriculum, it’s likely that the system is outdated– sometimes utterly broken. You both learn and get respect from people worth getting it from by leading and doing, not by following.
3. Read as much as you can. Learn to speed read with high retention. Emerson Spartz taught me this while I was at a Summit Series event. If he reads 2-3 books a week, you can read one.
4. Connect with everyone, all the time. Be genuine about it. Learn to find something you like in each person, and then speak to that thing.
5. Don’t waste time being shy. Shyness is the belief that your emotions should be the arbitrators of your decision making process when the opposite is actually true.
6. If you feel weird about something during a relationship, that’s usually what you end up breaking up over.
7. Have as much contact as possible with older people. Personally, I met people at Podcamps. My friend Greg, at the age of 13, met his first future employer sitting next to him on a plane. The reason this is so valuable is because people your age don’t usually have the decision-making ability to help you very much. Also they know almost everything you will learn later, so ask them.
8. Find people that are cooler than you and hang out with them too. This and the corollary are both important: “don’t attempt to be average inside your group. Continuously attempt to be cooler than them (by doing cooler things, being more laid back, accepting, ambitious, etc.).”
9. You will become more conservative over time. This is just a fact. Those you surround yourself with create a kind of “bubble” that pushes you to support the status quo. For this reason, you need to do your craziest stuff NOW. Later on, you’ll become too afraid. Trust me.
10. Reduce all expenses as much as possible. I mean it. This creates a safety net that will allow you to do the crazier shit I mentioned above.
11. Instead of getting status through objects (which provide only temporary boosts), do it through experiences. In other words, a trip to Paris is a better choice than a new wardrobe. Studies show this also boosts happiness.
12. While you are living on the cheap, solve the money problem. Use the internet, because it’s like a cool little machine that helps you do your bidding. If you are currently living paycheck to paycheck, extend that to three weeks instead of two. Then, as you get better, you can think a month ahead, then three months, then six, and finally a year ahead. (The goal is to get to a point where you are thinking 5 years ahead.)
13. Learn to program.
14. Get a six-pack (or get thin, whatever your goal is) while you are young. Your hormones are in a better place to help you do this at a younger age. Don’t waste this opportunity, trust me.
15. Learn to cook. This will make everything much easier and it turns food from a chore + expensive habit into a pleasant + frugal one. I’m a big Jamie Oliver fan, but whatever you like is fine.
16. Sleep well. This and cooking will help with the six pack. If you think “I can sleep when I’m dead” or “I have too much to do to sleep,” I have news for you: you are INEFFICIENT, and sleep deprivation isn’t helping.
17. Get a reminder app for everything. Do not trust your own brain for your memory. Do not trust it for what you “feel like” you should be doing. Trust only the reminder app. I use RE.minder and Action Method.
18. Choose something huge to do, as well as allowing the waves of opportunity to help you along. If you don’t set goals, some stuff may happen, but if you do choose, lots more will.
19. Get known for one thing. Spend like 5 years doing it instead of flopping around all over the place. If you want to shift afterwards, go ahead. Like I said, choose something.
20. Don’t try to “fix” anyone. Instead, look for someone who isn’t broken.
Written by: Julian Smith inoveryourhead.net